Civil Weddings

Couples who have a wedding in England or Wales will also need to attend a register office for the marriage to be legally recognised.

With Civil Ceremonies, it’s your wedding, your way. From intimate garden gatherings to wonderful woodland weddings or beautiful beach ceremonies. – you name it, I can do it!

A civil wedding is non-religious and personally tailored to you.

I will spend time getting to know you so that on your big day, I can tell your unique love story in a meaningful way.

I will help you choose the order of the ceremony, the words, music, and any rituals you would like, such as a handfasting or tying the knot– or something of specific cultural significance to you..

Some couples and families like to have some spiritual references and this is particularly important for their beliefs and to honour family tradition. So your wedding ceremony can be as dignified and traditional as a church service, but with all or some of the religious elements replaced with more contemporary, modern and emotionally relevant approach.

Renewing your vows can be a great way to celebrate your marriage for a second time.

There are lots of reasons why couples choose to renew their vows. It could be that you have reached a milestone wedding anniversary, or you would simply like to re-commit to one another in the presence of your friends and family.

Much like the Wedding Ceremonies I conduct, your Vow Renewal ceremony will be designed to reflect your individuality and your life as a couple.

You can include the same vows from your marriage ceremony or we can work with you on vows that reflect the journey you have been through. We have beautiful ways of re-dedicating your wedding rings or you can exchange new rings.

We understand how important family is, so we have plenty of experience of including children and grandchildren in your ceremony, while making sure we keep the focus on you.

You can also include symbolic rituals, readings, music – it’s entirely up to you. We are there to advise you and carefully bring your ceremony together so that your Vow Renewal is something that your family and friends will talk about for years to come.

Wedding Poem Ideas

Here are five poems you might find one that’s perfect for you – or you might be inspired to write your own!

  • In that still and settled place

    There’s nobody but you

    You’re where I breath my oxygen

    You’re where I see my view

    And when the world feels full of noise

    My heart knows what to do

    It finds that still and settled place

    And dances there with you

  • Today is a day you will always remember

    The greatest in anyone’s life

    You’ll start off the day just two people in love

    And end it as Husband and Wife

    It’s a brand new beginning the start of a journey

    With moments to cherish and treasure

    And although there’ll be times when you both disagree

    These will surely be outweighed by pleasure

    You’ll have heard many words of advice in the past

    When the secrets of marriage were spoken

    But you know that the answers lie hidden inside

    Where the bond of true love lies unbroken

    So live happy forever as lovers and friends

    It’s the dawn of a new life for you

    As you stand there together with love in your eyes

    From the moment you whisper ‘I do’

    And with luck, all your hopes, and your dreams can be real

    May success find its way to your hearts

    Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys

    But today is the day it all starts

  • Most people in your life

    Were only meant

    For dreams,

    And summer laughter.

    They stay till the wind changes,

    And tides turn,

    Or disappear

    With the first snow.

    And then there are some

    That were forged

    To weather blizzards

    And pain with you.

    They were cast in iron,

    Set in gold

    And never ever leave you

    To face anything alone.

    Know who those people are

    And love them the way they deserve.

    Not everyone in your life is temporary.

    A few are as permanent as love is old.

  • If there was ever one

    Whom when you were sleeping

    Would wipe your tears

    When in dreams you were weeping;

    Who would offer you time

    When others demand;

    Whose love lay more infinite

    Than grains of sand.

    If there was ever one

    To whom you could cry;

    Who would gather each tear

    And blow it dry;

    Who would offer help

    On the mountains of time;

    Who would stop to let each sunset

    Soothe the jaded mind.

    If there was ever one

    To whom when you run

    Will push back the clouds

    So you are bathed in sun;

    Who would open arms

    If you would fall;

    Who would show you everything

    If you lost it all.

    If there was ever one

    Who when you achieve

    Was there before the dream

    And even then believed;

    Who would clear the air

    When it’s full of loss;

    Who would count love

    Before the cost.

    If there was ever one

    Who when you are cold

    Will summon warm air

    For your hands to hold;

    Who would make peace

    In pouring pain,

    Make laughter fall

    In falling rain.

    If there was ever one

    Who can offer you this and more;

    Who in keyless rooms

    Can open doors;

    Who in open doors

    Can see open fields

    And in open fields

    See harvests yield.

    Then see only my face

    In reflection of these tides

    Through the clear water

    Beyond the river side.

    All I can send is love

    In all that this is

    A poem and a necklace

    Of invisible kisses.

  • How do I declare the ways..?

    Can words express the way I feel? Can kisses?

    Do you understand that there is a little piece of me

    That dies every time you leave

    Don’t you know, I don’t want you to go

    And when you arrive, it’s like we’d never been apart

    You have my heart.

    It is intoxicating,

    Inexplicable and marvellous…

    Being with you is what I always hoped it would be like

    And I have to pinch myself and ask

    What did I do to deserve a gift so precious?

    How can I declare the ways?

    Yes! I will marry you.